Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Opposites Attract: (in my humble ,and in no way experienced, opinion)


Opposites Attract:
Why? 
Because if your other half is exactly the same as you, you wouldn't need them to complete you. 
(And frankly, your own flaws would drive you both to insanity.) God made us all different so we would need each other. We need companionship and companionship with someone exactly like yourself would be like sitting in a room with yourself, talking to yourself. Boring, lonely and pointless.
It's like puzzle peices, one side is similar so it fits together, (you have similar interests, dreams, desires, or tastes) but the other sides and the colors can be totally different. 
If all the sides were exactly the same, anyone could fit with anyone and there'd be no attraction, no romance, no fun, 
just boring squares. 
Grey squares. 
With no personality whatsoever.
And that's not why God created romance. 

Romance, the way i see it, is supposed to be exciting. 
Thrilling. Beautiful. Fun. An adventure.

ro·mance/rōˈmans/

Noun:
A feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love

Verb:
Court; woo: "the wealthy owner romanced her".



We are too woo and be wooed. We are to be romanced and needed with some mystery. 
If everything was perfect, there would be no interest in anything. 

Sure, it's complicated, but if everything came easy, no one would ever bother trying to do anything. 

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